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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 14:21

How does one succeed in life?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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That's it for today.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Does not procrastinate.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Making more friends is a goal.

What thing happened to you as a child that you haven’t let go of to this day?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Why do I get stressed when I go to bed?

Ask yourself:

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why would calling me an incel help anything? How does that solve anything? Why can’t you actually be helpful and offer productive honest advice?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

How can I stop overthinking and take action more quickly?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why do people procrastinate and how can they stop?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Why does the UK Labour MP Jess Philips seem to be such a divisive figure?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Shouldn’t there be a short porn platform like TikTok?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What I need from you?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.